Delightful Questionnaire for Valentine's Day
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I think I haven't done one of these since high school.
- 1: Do you have a crush at the moment?
- Yes.
- 2: Have you ever been deeply in love?
- Yes.
- 3: Longest relationship you've ever been in?
- Five years.
- 4: Have you ever changed for someone?
- Probably.
- 5: How is your relationship with your ex?
- Doesn't exist.
- 6: Have you ever been cheated on?
- Don't think so.
- 7: Have you ever cheated?
- No.
- 8: Would you date someone who's well known for cheating?
- Depends how much I liked them.
- 9: What's the most important part of a relationship?
- What distinguishes it from a friendship, so probably some form of touching.
- 10: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?
- Serious.
- 11: When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"?
- Not really.
- 12: How many people have you ever hooked up with?
- Two.
- 13: What's one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?
- Not breaking up sooner.
- 14: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?
- Depends who they are.
- 15: Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"?
- Largely.
- 16: Do you believe in "love at first sight"?
- No.
- 17: Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet?
- Probably.
- 18: What do you consider a deal breaker?
- If they don't want to listen to my anti-oppression rants. (There are many others).
- 19: How do you know it's time to end a relationship?
- The participants have very different expectations/goals, and insufficient effort to resolve them.
- 20: Are you currently in a relationship?
- No.
- 21: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?
- Yes.
- 22: Do you think people should date their friends?
- Yes.
- 23: How many relationships have you had?
- Three.
- 24: Do you think love can last forever?
- Yes.
- 25: Do you believe love can conquer all things?
- No.
- 26: Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of?
- Depends why, but probably not.
- 27: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?
- Be more willing to take the risk with people who aren't "perfect."
- 28: Do you think long distance relationships can work?
- Depends.
- 29: What do you notice first about another person?
- Probably eyes.
- 30: Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual?
- What about a- or trans*?
- 31: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?
- If they act in a bothersome way.
- 32: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
- I've been in a relationship that became abusive.
- 33: Do you want to get married one day?
- Don't know.
- 34: What do you think about getting your partner's name tattooed?
- Depends.
- 35: Could you be in a relationship without sex?
- No.
- 36: Are you still a virgin?
- No.
- 37: What's more important: Looks or personality?
- Personality.
- 38: Do you enjoy love films?
- Sometimes.
- 39: Have you ever given anyone/received roses?
- No.
- 40: Have you ever had a valentine?
- I don't really know what that means.
- 41: What's your imagination of a "perfect date"?
- I don't know that either.
- 42: Have you ever read "Romeo & Juliet"?
- Yes—I have, in fact!
- 43: What's more important: Your partner or your friends?
- Depends which partner and which friends.
- 44: Would you consider yourself "romantic"?
- No.
- 45: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?
- Yes.
- 46: Have you ever been "friendzoned"?
- I object to the term.
- 47: Which "famous couple" is your favorite?
- I don't follow famous couples.
- 48: What's your favorite love song?
- Love songs are usually weird.
- 49: Have you ever broken someone's heart?
- I think so.
- 50: If you're single, why do you think you are?
- I'm having problems finding new people.
- 51: Would you rather date someone who's rich but a douchebag or someone who's poor but a nice guy?
- Nice guy.
- 52: Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/relationships?
- "Advices"... what are you, a franco? I don't think so, but people keep asking.
- 53: Are you jealous of couples when you're single?
- No.
- 54: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on facebook)?
- Wait! "p.e." as in "par exemple?!" You totally are a franco! Not very.
- 55: Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"?
- Yes, clingy.
- 56: Have you ever "destroyed" a relationship?
- Yes, but I wan't the only one.
- 57: Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?
- I object to "silly" because it trivializes a serious mental health issue.
- 58: Are you the "dominant" or the "submissive" part in a relationship?
- Usually submissive, but I don't prefer a hierarchized relationship.
- 59: Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner's birthday or your anniversary?
- No.
- 60: What's your opinion on open relationships?
- Good idea, but not for me at this time.
- 61: Who's more important: Your partner or your family?
- Now you say "partner," so it seems like they are family, so "no."
- 62: How do you define "cheating"?
- When you do that thing that distinguishes relationships and friendships with a person who isn't your partner, and without the enthusiastic consent of your partner. What distinguishes friendships and relationships? For me, sex.
- 63: Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?
- No.
- 64: Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated?
- Probably.
- 65: Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"?
- Yes.
So it was a little longer than I expected, but that's okay (twss).